In an attempt to help that is when we screw things up even more. I think it is very unfair but that is what happens in the world.
I wish you could tell someone the truth and and it would make them happier not sad, mad and well sad. The truth does not set people free.Whoever said that needs to be hanged! It just chains them down with self doubt, doubt in general, and fear.
We are taught that not sharing the truth, like a good little boy or good little girl should, makes you a “bad person”. Ruining someone’s happy day is also the same thing,right?
If you have ever taken a toddler’s prized toy, the face, that face before the child begins to below out is the equivalent of ruining someone’s day. That sadness in those innocent eyes, that is what you would have done.
These rules developed about always telling the truth only work till a certain age. After that things get complicated and you learn the hard way.
So next time you want to” set someone free” with your awesome words of wisdom, keep it to yourself till you start feeling sceptical about telling them. If you do not do this, well done! You can tell them. It means its the right thing to do or you are a psychopath!
Just remember, as a wise person once said,
” The road to hell is paved with good intentions.”
If you look, even before the storm, there are signs that it will pass. So when bad things happen, good things are sure to follow…
Once a month for about three days i take time to stay in bed for that whole amount of time.
Yes, you heard me, i don’t go out. I watch movies and listen to music. Thats what i do. Phone switched off or on silent and just me and my thoughts.
Today, day one of discovery. I found out i am a hand full when in comes to relationships. I really am not normal about them and although I have the best girl friend behaviour, not clingy or too jealous. So whats wrong then?
I was wondering the same thing and since none of my friends could give me the a clear opinion, I went to my ex, the one who I know would tell me the truth just because he despises me that much. What did i ever do to him you ask? Nothing, exactly that.
He confirmed what i already thought. I am lousy at relationships. And I have to admit, a part of me wanted to curse at him but I did specify i wanted the outer truth and I did approach him with the question.
So yes, I am terrible at relationships, but so what. I think I am good at the ones that count. We don’t get awards for the number of relationships you can keep but on keeping the right one. The aware being happiness.
So don’t worry if your relationship isn’t picture perfect. Everything will be “Va bene”.