The beauty about our species is in how different each and everyone of us are. So saying something is masculine or feminine is kinda saying that’s the correct way to be a man or woman. If we are all different there can never be a correct way. And since we are not the creaters of these different characteristics how can we claim the right to define it.
We all hate making goals due to the fact that when we do not achieve these goals, we are left feeling disappointed in ourselves. But without goals, you are just a leaf, fallen from a tree, going God knows where!! You can get caught up in anything and be lost forever…
You have no influence on what will happen in your future or where you will end up. You might get lucky and end up somewhere nice and comfy. It may be close to a pond somewhere, since you are leaf, you will be well off. But we all know that luck, as much as we talk about it, is rarely there when you need it. You only ”get lucky” in small unnecessary things. The important, life changing moments have nothing to do luck.
The important things require you to take action. To get off your lazy or scared arse and make the effort.
Make some goals! I guarantee you will not complete most of them. But if you complete that one, regardless of how small it is, you will feel significantly better than you would if you just allowed yourself to drift in the world. It might be fun, not having a plan. And it is a good thing to do it, sometimes. You need something to hold on to in this crazy world.
Goals will keep you going,even when you feel like giving up.
So why not try it. Start small. Keep at it. Even when you fail, don’t give up. Rome wasn’t built in a day after all! 🙂
I am taking my advice and hopefully by the end of the next month, I will have my second baby…my guitar I mean :). And it’s that goal that will help me wake up and go to WORK everyday, even when I do not feel like it!
In an attempt to help that is when we screw things up even more. I think it is very unfair but that is what happens in the world.
I wish you could tell someone the truth and and it would make them happier not sad, mad and well sad. The truth does not set people free.Whoever said that needs to be hanged! It just chains them down with self doubt, doubt in general, and fear.
We are taught that not sharing the truth, like a good little boy or good little girl should, makes you a “bad person”. Ruining someone’s happy day is also the same thing,right?
If you have ever taken a toddler’s prized toy, the face, that face before the child begins to below out is the equivalent of ruining someone’s day. That sadness in those innocent eyes, that is what you would have done.
These rules developed about always telling the truth only work till a certain age. After that things get complicated and you learn the hard way.
So next time you want to” set someone free” with your awesome words of wisdom, keep it to yourself till you start feeling sceptical about telling them. If you do not do this, well done! You can tell them. It means its the right thing to do or you are a psychopath!
Just remember, as a wise person once said,
” The road to hell is paved with good intentions.”
I am not a movie person. I have a very short attention span and it makes me more of a series girl. As long as the series does not last more than 45 minutes, I can manage.
However I was browsing through a bunch of channels one day and came upon a Leonardo De Caprio movie. It was called Shutter Island. I watched it from beginning to end.
The next day I came across Inception, another mind blowing movie. They endings are always charged with so much tension and the fact that the viewer can not predict what will happen next,makes it worth while to sit through to the end.
I am sure that everyone who works behind the scenes makes it what it is. Amazing. However, the major factor to the success of a movie still remains on the actors and actresses. If they can make you believe that they are the characters they are portraying then, hats off to them.
These days we have so many people in the “acting business”. Once you have been on TV you call yourself an actor or actress
. Well, talent still counts. Brad Pit, Angelina Jolie, Julia Roberts, Denzel Washington and many others became big names because of talent.
This is what I want to see. Not that boring sub par acting that you can tell is scripted. The more real it seems, the greater the pleasure the viewer has watching it.
So to all the directors there, in addition to a good script, please just pay the good actors the bloody money to do their jobs!!